"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women are just as predatory as Men, but we never talk about that

Travel memoir21

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Just base on my experience:

- Me right now always getting hit on by Cougars, older single moms and grandmas where I'm currently at.

- In College at around twenty or age 19, that was the prime years in my life where I believe I had a bunch of young mid Twenty something hotties checking me out. I believe aesthetically, it was also my prime years.

- I believe that Mary Kate Laterno story between that young man, is pretty damn common around the world base on what I know now.

- I still have Cougars who are big fan of my work on my Instagram page.

So what do you guys think? I think given the circumstances, they can be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why does it matter, based on what you have said prior you have no interest in taking advantage of any of it.
It means that women notice him, so he has more value than an amoeba and is now a supreme don juan. So listen to him and stop making fun or criticizing his posts!
 

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In my early 30's I was happy to be cougar bait. Those girls got straight down to business most of the time. Nothing complicated with them.

Most of us like "predatory" females as you call them because it's easy sex. Except you @Travel memoir21 Don't make women more complicated than they need to be. Take What you Need From the Ladies in Need! ;-)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women are only predatory towards attractive males. And attractive males rarely complain about female attention. Hence it’s rarely talked about.
 

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Fat women, older women, ugly women, and single mothers are also predatory,
 

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It’s usually from a chic you wouldn‘t touch in a million years. Women probably feel the same when unattractive men hit on them.
 

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In my early 30's I was happy to be cougar bait. Those girls got straight down to business most of the time. Nothing complicated with them.

Most of us like "predatory" females as you call them because it's easy sex. Except you @Travel memoir21 Don't make women more complicated than they need to be. Take What you Need From the Ladies in Need! ;-)
This is why I love cougars!!! Ben Franklin said "if u had to choose a mistress, choose an older one, they're more grateful"! Haha so true. All my best sex was w cougars. Younger chicks are mostly tedious before and after sex. And sometimes during. Unless they're GF type and the chemistry is awesome then of course that's the pinnacle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is why I love cougars!!! Ben Franklin said "if u had to choose a mistress, choose an older one, they're more grateful"! Haha so true. All my best sex was w cougars. Younger chicks are mostly tedious before and after sex. And sometimes during. Unless they're GF type and the chemistry is awesome then of course that's the pinnacle.
Younger chicks can't take d!ck to save their life. They tap out way too quickly and way too frequently.
 

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If you were to get married now, who would you pick A Virgin but very feminine, submissive, traditional young twenty year old? Or a modern independent woman whose got 5 notches down her belt?
I don't treat people as if they are a transaction. I treat them as a person which would encompass looking at them as a human being and taking into account all their qualities as such.
 

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We humans are predatory and generally f-c-ing dangerous by design
This is true across gender lines

It wasn't being nice that led to us ruling the planet
 
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