"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women are just as predatory as Men, but we never talk about that

Travel memoir21

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Just base on my experience:

- Me right now always getting hit on by Cougars, older single moms and grandmas where I'm currently at.

- In College at around twenty or age 19, that was the prime years in my life where I believe I had a bunch of young mid Twenty something hotties checking me out. I believe aesthetically, it was also my prime years.

- I believe that Mary Kate Laterno story between that young man, is pretty damn common around the world base on what I know now.

- I still have Cougars who are big fan of my work on my Instagram page.

So what do you guys think? I think given the circumstances, they can be.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why does it matter, based on what you have said prior you have no interest in taking advantage of any of it.
It means that women notice him, so he has more value than an amoeba and is now a supreme don juan. So listen to him and stop making fun or criticizing his posts!
 

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In my early 30's I was happy to be cougar bait. Those girls got straight down to business most of the time. Nothing complicated with them.

Most of us like "predatory" females as you call them because it's easy sex. Except you @Travel memoir21 Don't make women more complicated than they need to be. Take What you Need From the Ladies in Need! ;-)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women are only predatory towards attractive males. And attractive males rarely complain about female attention. Hence it’s rarely talked about.
 

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Fat women, older women, ugly women, and single mothers are also predatory,
 

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It’s usually from a chic you wouldn‘t touch in a million years. Women probably feel the same when unattractive men hit on them.
 

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In my early 30's I was happy to be cougar bait. Those girls got straight down to business most of the time. Nothing complicated with them.

Most of us like "predatory" females as you call them because it's easy sex. Except you @Travel memoir21 Don't make women more complicated than they need to be. Take What you Need From the Ladies in Need! ;-)
This is why I love cougars!!! Ben Franklin said "if u had to choose a mistress, choose an older one, they're more grateful"! Haha so true. All my best sex was w cougars. Younger chicks are mostly tedious before and after sex. And sometimes during. Unless they're GF type and the chemistry is awesome then of course that's the pinnacle.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is why I love cougars!!! Ben Franklin said "if u had to choose a mistress, choose an older one, they're more grateful"! Haha so true. All my best sex was w cougars. Younger chicks are mostly tedious before and after sex. And sometimes during. Unless they're GF type and the chemistry is awesome then of course that's the pinnacle.
Younger chicks can't take d!ck to save their life. They tap out way too quickly and way too frequently.
 

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If you were to get married now, who would you pick A Virgin but very feminine, submissive, traditional young twenty year old? Or a modern independent woman whose got 5 notches down her belt?
I don't treat people as if they are a transaction. I treat them as a person which would encompass looking at them as a human being and taking into account all their qualities as such.
 

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We humans are predatory and generally f-c-ing dangerous by design
This is true across gender lines

It wasn't being nice that led to us ruling the planet
 
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