"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Women are Dumb! Fact
- Thread starter Stem
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Joe The Homophobe
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TedJustAdmitIt
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So this hot blonde girl is cleaning some counters at her work. I can't help but notice that the counters she was cleaning were smearing REALLY bad.
I look at the bottle she is holding and it says "Stainless Steel and Chrome Cleaner"
:crackup:
run out of windex?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
incorrectOriginally posted by themanwithnoname
men are dumb too, d umbass.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
theres no such thingOriginally posted by themanwithnoname
men are dumb too, d umbass.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
um, are you a man, 'cuz that's just insulting yourself fyi.....Originally posted by themanwithnoname
men are dumb too, d umbass.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Heyjose25points
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rofl!Originally posted by Stem
Hmmm.. so who’s the dumb one then??
The women.. or the guy who continuously chooses to go out with such women, then comes here to boast about it?