"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women are Dumb! Fact
- Thread starter Stem
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Joe The Homophobe
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TedJustAdmitIt
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So this hot blonde girl is cleaning some counters at her work. I can't help but notice that the counters she was cleaning were smearing REALLY bad.
I look at the bottle she is holding and it says "Stainless Steel and Chrome Cleaner"
:crackup:
run out of windex?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
themanwithnoname
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incorrectOriginally posted by themanwithnoname
men are dumb too, d umbass.
undesputable
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theres no such thingOriginally posted by themanwithnoname
men are dumb too, d umbass.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
um, are you a man, 'cuz that's just insulting yourself fyi.....Originally posted by themanwithnoname
men are dumb too, d umbass.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Heyjose25points
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rofl!Originally posted by Stem
Hmmm.. so who’s the dumb one then??
The women.. or the guy who continuously chooses to go out with such women, then comes here to boast about it?