That's how it is here in Germany, too (Ive heard its even a bit worse here). I know it depends on your location, though: about 5 years ago I was in Spain for a week and was approached by 2 chicks. I couldnt speak a word with them (haha). I've asked another girl from barcelona before and she said something like "I want the man to approach me..." "but if he doesn't do anything ill approach him first, i just hate waiting hehe". Ive heard similar things about Brazil.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Women are afraid to approach right?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Women rarely approach me, but recently a girl semi-approached me (walked up to me and locked eyes with me for several seconds, leaving it to me to open conversation).
no they're not. that's exactly what thety want you to think
you see...all the women get together once a year for a big secret women's convention. it's top secret, no one bit women know about it( dont ask). women everywhere go to this shindig: moms,daughter, lesbians, grannies, trannies, Paris Hilton, Hilary clinton, every kind of woman.
they get together to discuss these bs rules that they make us follow, and one of them is that they agree to never approach men. we have to do all the work. they are not really afraid of us
they agree to approach only in extreme situations when it is absolutely necessary. they only approach the most manly of men,(which would be someone like...micheal Jackson) out of fear of never getting the opportunity again.
they're just like dj's. that's why they like us so much.
you see...all the women get together once a year for a big secret women's convention. it's top secret, no one bit women know about it( dont ask). women everywhere go to this shindig: moms,daughter, lesbians, grannies, trannies, Paris Hilton, Hilary clinton, every kind of woman.
they get together to discuss these bs rules that they make us follow, and one of them is that they agree to never approach men. we have to do all the work. they are not really afraid of us
they agree to approach only in extreme situations when it is absolutely necessary. they only approach the most manly of men,(which would be someone like...micheal Jackson) out of fear of never getting the opportunity again.
they're just like dj's. that's why they like us so much.
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Fear of rejection, plain and simple...plus its our job.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I want to add this:
Few things are as rewarding as making a successful approach that leads to a number close, kiss close, f-close, multiple f-closes. It is a matter of pride, confidence and masculinity. The same type of feeling is experienced by sales people who go out and find the customer and sell them the product. It's invigorating and motivating.
It can be scary and there is all these doubts that a person can come up with to convince them not to but the reward is worth it. Even getting a rejection is more rewarding than never knowing what 'could have, should have, might have' been.
Few things are as rewarding as making a successful approach that leads to a number close, kiss close, f-close, multiple f-closes. It is a matter of pride, confidence and masculinity. The same type of feeling is experienced by sales people who go out and find the customer and sell them the product. It's invigorating and motivating.
It can be scary and there is all these doubts that a person can come up with to convince them not to but the reward is worth it. Even getting a rejection is more rewarding than never knowing what 'could have, should have, might have' been.