Women are afraid to approach right?

[GamePlan]

Most of the time they won't approach even if you are attractive they'll just stare and at best ask a very vague question give a shallow compliment.

Very few women approach in a direct manner.

That's how it is here in Germany, too (Ive heard its even a bit worse here). I know it depends on your location, though: about 5 years ago I was in Spain for a week and was approached by 2 chicks. I couldnt speak a word with them (haha). I've asked another girl from barcelona before and she said something like "I want the man to approach me..." "but if he doesn't do anything ill approach him first, i just hate waiting hehe". Ive heard similar things about Brazil.

 

[FoolsCause]

Women rarely approach me, but recently a girl semi-approached me (walked up to me and locked eyes with me for several seconds, leaving it to me to open conversation).

 

[Go getta]

no they're not. that's exactly what thety want you to think

you see...all the women get together once a year for a big secret women's convention. it's top secret, no one bit women know about it( dont ask). women everywhere go to this shindig: moms,daughter, lesbians, grannies, trannies, Paris Hilton, Hilary clinton, every kind of woman.

they get together to discuss these bs rules that they make us follow, and one of them is that they agree to never approach men. we have to do all the work. they are not really afraid of us

they agree to approach only in extreme situations when it is absolutely necessary. they only approach the most manly of men,(which would be someone like...micheal Jackson) out of fear of never getting the opportunity again.

they're just like dj's. that's why they like us so much.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Fear of rejection, plain and simple...plus its our job.

 

[Charm]

tobby an page 1 made an excellent post.

 

[Charm]

I want to add this:

Few things are as rewarding as making a successful approach that leads to a number close, kiss close, f-close, multiple f-closes. It is a matter of pride, confidence and masculinity. The same type of feeling is experienced by sales people who go out and find the customer and sell them the product. It's invigorating and motivating.

It can be scary and there is all these doubts that a person can come up with to convince them not to but the reward is worth it. Even getting a rejection is more rewarding than never knowing what 'could have, should have, might have' been.