"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women are a poker game..

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I just recently had a thought that trying to DJ it with a girl is alot like playing Texas No-Limit Hold 'em poker. One of my best moves now is a move often used in poker. If you ever watch all the tournaments on ESPN you will see a guy with a really good hand check, or pass on raising the bet or betting at all, and then on the next round he will bet high and bring it all in. This approach can kind of be used on a girl.

I first used this move on a girl who was dating an aquatance of sorts. I acted like a total DJ towards her because I knew at the moment she was something good to practice on since there wasn't much of a chance of risking a relationship if I screwed up. Everything I said was perfect, I didnt screw up my words or anything around her and I looked like a pimp. She always told me with a big smile on her face how naughty I was and how I should be nicer.

So one day I played an AFC when she broke up with her boyfriend. I listened and talked and gave advice and I was her emotional tampon. She got comfortable around me and pretty soon she always came to talk to me about anything.

And then whenever she got over him and thought of me as a good friend or whatever I came in with a heavy bet, and I showed her what I really had acting like a DJ again. I don't know exactly how to explain how it worked but it did.. When she saw I could go from a nice senstive friend to that stud that she could see herself with she fell for me. So by being weak and letting her think of me in a friend she put in her money and then I busted out the royal flush of being a DJ and I had her.

More poker move dating tips to come as I figure them out.. Those guys on the World Poker Tour could be great DJ's.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Canadianpimpology

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Wow, you really watch that sh*t. LoL, don't trip, I love poker too. I watch that stuff too, and I'm pretty good at Texas. Still though, me thinks you look like a farking idiot for making this analogy.
 

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Whatever works for you, whatever works... :)
 

Ace of Spades

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Your analogy makes no sense, but I am a gambling addict.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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