"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women are a poker game..

neo12535

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I just recently had a thought that trying to DJ it with a girl is alot like playing Texas No-Limit Hold 'em poker. One of my best moves now is a move often used in poker. If you ever watch all the tournaments on ESPN you will see a guy with a really good hand check, or pass on raising the bet or betting at all, and then on the next round he will bet high and bring it all in. This approach can kind of be used on a girl.

I first used this move on a girl who was dating an aquatance of sorts. I acted like a total DJ towards her because I knew at the moment she was something good to practice on since there wasn't much of a chance of risking a relationship if I screwed up. Everything I said was perfect, I didnt screw up my words or anything around her and I looked like a pimp. She always told me with a big smile on her face how naughty I was and how I should be nicer.

So one day I played an AFC when she broke up with her boyfriend. I listened and talked and gave advice and I was her emotional tampon. She got comfortable around me and pretty soon she always came to talk to me about anything.

And then whenever she got over him and thought of me as a good friend or whatever I came in with a heavy bet, and I showed her what I really had acting like a DJ again. I don't know exactly how to explain how it worked but it did.. When she saw I could go from a nice senstive friend to that stud that she could see herself with she fell for me. So by being weak and letting her think of me in a friend she put in her money and then I busted out the royal flush of being a DJ and I had her.

More poker move dating tips to come as I figure them out.. Those guys on the World Poker Tour could be great DJ's.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Canadianpimpology

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Wow, you really watch that sh*t. LoL, don't trip, I love poker too. I watch that stuff too, and I'm pretty good at Texas. Still though, me thinks you look like a farking idiot for making this analogy.
 

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Whatever works for you, whatever works... :)
 

Ace of Spades

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Your analogy makes no sense, but I am a gambling addict.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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