"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women are a poker game..

neo12535

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I just recently had a thought that trying to DJ it with a girl is alot like playing Texas No-Limit Hold 'em poker. One of my best moves now is a move often used in poker. If you ever watch all the tournaments on ESPN you will see a guy with a really good hand check, or pass on raising the bet or betting at all, and then on the next round he will bet high and bring it all in. This approach can kind of be used on a girl.

I first used this move on a girl who was dating an aquatance of sorts. I acted like a total DJ towards her because I knew at the moment she was something good to practice on since there wasn't much of a chance of risking a relationship if I screwed up. Everything I said was perfect, I didnt screw up my words or anything around her and I looked like a pimp. She always told me with a big smile on her face how naughty I was and how I should be nicer.

So one day I played an AFC when she broke up with her boyfriend. I listened and talked and gave advice and I was her emotional tampon. She got comfortable around me and pretty soon she always came to talk to me about anything.

And then whenever she got over him and thought of me as a good friend or whatever I came in with a heavy bet, and I showed her what I really had acting like a DJ again. I don't know exactly how to explain how it worked but it did.. When she saw I could go from a nice senstive friend to that stud that she could see herself with she fell for me. So by being weak and letting her think of me in a friend she put in her money and then I busted out the royal flush of being a DJ and I had her.

More poker move dating tips to come as I figure them out.. Those guys on the World Poker Tour could be great DJ's.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Canadianpimpology

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Wow, you really watch that sh*t. LoL, don't trip, I love poker too. I watch that stuff too, and I'm pretty good at Texas. Still though, me thinks you look like a farking idiot for making this analogy.
 

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Whatever works for you, whatever works... :)
 

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Your analogy makes no sense, but I am a gambling addict.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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