Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Good one. Thanks for the chuckle....even though pubes were outlawed in the late 90's.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good one. Thanks for the chuckle....even though pubes were outlawed in the late 90's.![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yeah I told my wife short hair isn't happening, ever. The shortest I'll tolerate is something like just above shoulder length. Those real short haircuts women gets sometimes = "i want to speak to the manager" haircuts = feminists.Short hair on a woman = "I've given up on my sexuality and convenience has become more important". That of course does not include feminists who are an entirely different level of insanity.
I've already told my women that short hair won't fly in my kingdom. She knows full well she'd have hell to pay if she cut it short. Since she's an authentic woman, she's more than happy to oblige me.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My mother swears that women have deeper hairlines and more forehead during that same period you describe. I think it's likely hormones in chicken and other meats. I've also noticed more younger women with really thin hair - especially around the bangs1 odd thing I have noticed over the last 10 years is that woman seem to have thinner hair. on TV I see a lot of actresses models TV presenters who presumably at the top of the female food chain looks wise. and I often think you are hot but need more hair. I'm wondering if there are contaminants in our home products or food that is causing this.
Personally I'm in the majority and like long hair. my girlfriend recently discussed getting her hair cut short with me. I told her she could do what she wants but I like long hair and thankfully that was the end of that
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's the standard way women like their hair to be grabbed - close to the skull. Any amount of hair, this side of Mia Farrow, will allow you to do thatSpeaking of hair... had this girl at a bar yesterday come up to me and start getting flirty. We chatted for a bit about how she is old enough to be my mom. I am 34, she is probably mid-40's, probably a 7, maybe a 6. Anywho, she starts touching my chest and arms which have become more noticeable lately. I turn her around and smack her ash...
She says "pull my hair when you do that"...
I was like wtf in my head... so I did it...
then she said, "no, like this"... puts my hand on the back of her head and says "you need to get it all and from the back"
So I grab her hair, pull hella hard, and smack her ash really hard
she was like "that's how you do it" and then grinded on me for like 5 mins
Teased me like she was ready to make out
weirdest bar experience ever. And it was all about the hair.... Couldn't have done that if she didn't have nice long hair...
Some women can definitely pull off the short hair look. Though personally I think both of those women look better with longer hair. Natalie Portman is attractive, but I think she has a bit of a lesbian vibe to her. She did do that scene with Mila Kunis in Black Swan.Plus some women pull that **** off. Have fhe biggest crush ever on Julianne Nicholson and she has short hair. Natalie portman pulls that **** off too
I know this might sound odd, but when I look at modern actresses, I could almost swear they use steroids to keep fit. This would explain hair loss.1 odd thing I have noticed over the last 10 years is that woman seem to have thinner hair. on TV I see a lot of actresses models TV presenters who presumably at the top of the female food chain looks wise. and I often think you are hot but need more hair. I'm wondering if there are contaminants in our home products or food that is causing this.
Personally I'm in the majority and like long hair. my girlfriend recently discussed getting her hair cut short with me. I told her she could do what she wants but I like long hair and thankfully that was the end of that
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.