Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Good one. Thanks for the chuckle....even though pubes were outlawed in the late 90's.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good one. Thanks for the chuckle....even though pubes were outlawed in the late 90's.![]()
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yeah I told my wife short hair isn't happening, ever. The shortest I'll tolerate is something like just above shoulder length. Those real short haircuts women gets sometimes = "i want to speak to the manager" haircuts = feminists.Short hair on a woman = "I've given up on my sexuality and convenience has become more important". That of course does not include feminists who are an entirely different level of insanity.
I've already told my women that short hair won't fly in my kingdom. She knows full well she'd have hell to pay if she cut it short. Since she's an authentic woman, she's more than happy to oblige me.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My mother swears that women have deeper hairlines and more forehead during that same period you describe. I think it's likely hormones in chicken and other meats. I've also noticed more younger women with really thin hair - especially around the bangs1 odd thing I have noticed over the last 10 years is that woman seem to have thinner hair. on TV I see a lot of actresses models TV presenters who presumably at the top of the female food chain looks wise. and I often think you are hot but need more hair. I'm wondering if there are contaminants in our home products or food that is causing this.
Personally I'm in the majority and like long hair. my girlfriend recently discussed getting her hair cut short with me. I told her she could do what she wants but I like long hair and thankfully that was the end of that
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's the standard way women like their hair to be grabbed - close to the skull. Any amount of hair, this side of Mia Farrow, will allow you to do thatSpeaking of hair... had this girl at a bar yesterday come up to me and start getting flirty. We chatted for a bit about how she is old enough to be my mom. I am 34, she is probably mid-40's, probably a 7, maybe a 6. Anywho, she starts touching my chest and arms which have become more noticeable lately. I turn her around and smack her ash...
She says "pull my hair when you do that"...
I was like wtf in my head... so I did it...
then she said, "no, like this"... puts my hand on the back of her head and says "you need to get it all and from the back"
So I grab her hair, pull hella hard, and smack her ash really hard
she was like "that's how you do it" and then grinded on me for like 5 mins
Teased me like she was ready to make out
weirdest bar experience ever. And it was all about the hair.... Couldn't have done that if she didn't have nice long hair...
Some women can definitely pull off the short hair look. Though personally I think both of those women look better with longer hair. Natalie Portman is attractive, but I think she has a bit of a lesbian vibe to her. She did do that scene with Mila Kunis in Black Swan.Plus some women pull that **** off. Have fhe biggest crush ever on Julianne Nicholson and she has short hair. Natalie portman pulls that **** off too
I know this might sound odd, but when I look at modern actresses, I could almost swear they use steroids to keep fit. This would explain hair loss.1 odd thing I have noticed over the last 10 years is that woman seem to have thinner hair. on TV I see a lot of actresses models TV presenters who presumably at the top of the female food chain looks wise. and I often think you are hot but need more hair. I'm wondering if there are contaminants in our home products or food that is causing this.
Personally I'm in the majority and like long hair. my girlfriend recently discussed getting her hair cut short with me. I told her she could do what she wants but I like long hair and thankfully that was the end of that
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.