"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women and men are different

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Some people act like men should be attracted to what women are attracted to and vice versa. It just doesn't work like that.

You have women who say they're successful with good careers, college educations, degrees, prominent jobs, power, own homes, cars, good credit, etc. Yet they complain that they can't find a man of the caliber they want. Truth is that has nothing to do with attraction for men. Men just want young, attractive women with high fertility.

Similarly, women don't care too much if a guy is young and good looking. Women are only attracted to social status. They only care about good looks or muscles in so much as these things may be indicators of status or power.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*grabs popcorn, sits back and waits for 3 pages of arguments and bs*
 

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Yes. Pretty straightforward, isn't it!
 

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OMG. is it really that simple!?

i've been doing it wrong the whole time. I guess when a girl says I'm hot it means she likes how i'm rich and famous....even though i'm not

it''s all so clear to me now

I only like girls that will give me good babies? I guess that's something else i've been missing
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pappy

I'm one of the older guys here. With regard to your thread, I agree and disagree. Due to my age and status, I think I know what I'm talking about here.

Many women will give a young guy who has nothing going for him other than his looks, the ONS and not think twice about it. I think this happens more than we know. In my case, I'm married. BUT, I get strong signals from lots of women who are 20-30 yrs my junior. Good looking too! Why? They know what I do for a living and know where I live. It's a status thing as you say. Lots of them are attracted to money, material stuff and status. I'm still in really good shape and don't look my age, or so I'm told. The ones I'm talking about don't even care if I'm taken. They just want a well to do guy and no question they would give it up in a heartbeat to enjoy the fruits of my labor all these years. I'm not bragging here, it's just the truth.

Given this, and some may disagree, you younger guys should continue with your education and status in life. Then the cooch will come a runnin'. Just know what you are dealing with and don't become emotionally attached.

If I wasn't married, I could be swimmin' in fur, and early mornin' dew.
 

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DonGorgon said:
um good looks are usually a pre requisite for many women even listening to what u have to say..lol
There are lots of decent looking youthful virgin guys in their teens/early 20s who can't get any girls. Meanwhile there are old men with money, power and status who bang young women. I can think of 2 or 3 famous examples off hand. That is how these women are. They usually have it better then guys their age when they're younger. But then they lose it as they get older. They become irrelevant. It is like poetic justice for when they were young and didn't want the nerdy, loser, geeky guys. They end up on par with those same guys in terms of market value to the opposite sex.
 

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PappyS said:
There are lots of decent looking youthful virgin guys in their teens/early 20s who can't get any girls. Meanwhile there are old men with money, power and status who bang young women. I can think of 2 or 3 famous examples off hand. That is how these women are. They usually have it better then guys their age when they're younger. But then they lose it as they get older. They become irrelevant. It is like poetic justice for when they were young and didn't want the nerdy, loser, geeky guys. They end up on par with those same guys in terms of market value to the opposite sex.
money looks or both ok yeah thats what it takes to get the job done i think every one knows that.. and most young women have a young pretty young boy and and old sugar dady in the F lists.. duh..
 
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