"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women and men are different

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Some people act like men should be attracted to what women are attracted to and vice versa. It just doesn't work like that.

You have women who say they're successful with good careers, college educations, degrees, prominent jobs, power, own homes, cars, good credit, etc. Yet they complain that they can't find a man of the caliber they want. Truth is that has nothing to do with attraction for men. Men just want young, attractive women with high fertility.

Similarly, women don't care too much if a guy is young and good looking. Women are only attracted to social status. They only care about good looks or muscles in so much as these things may be indicators of status or power.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*grabs popcorn, sits back and waits for 3 pages of arguments and bs*
 

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Yes. Pretty straightforward, isn't it!
 

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OMG. is it really that simple!?

i've been doing it wrong the whole time. I guess when a girl says I'm hot it means she likes how i'm rich and famous....even though i'm not

it''s all so clear to me now

I only like girls that will give me good babies? I guess that's something else i've been missing
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pappy

I'm one of the older guys here. With regard to your thread, I agree and disagree. Due to my age and status, I think I know what I'm talking about here.

Many women will give a young guy who has nothing going for him other than his looks, the ONS and not think twice about it. I think this happens more than we know. In my case, I'm married. BUT, I get strong signals from lots of women who are 20-30 yrs my junior. Good looking too! Why? They know what I do for a living and know where I live. It's a status thing as you say. Lots of them are attracted to money, material stuff and status. I'm still in really good shape and don't look my age, or so I'm told. The ones I'm talking about don't even care if I'm taken. They just want a well to do guy and no question they would give it up in a heartbeat to enjoy the fruits of my labor all these years. I'm not bragging here, it's just the truth.

Given this, and some may disagree, you younger guys should continue with your education and status in life. Then the cooch will come a runnin'. Just know what you are dealing with and don't become emotionally attached.

If I wasn't married, I could be swimmin' in fur, and early mornin' dew.
 

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DonGorgon said:
um good looks are usually a pre requisite for many women even listening to what u have to say..lol
There are lots of decent looking youthful virgin guys in their teens/early 20s who can't get any girls. Meanwhile there are old men with money, power and status who bang young women. I can think of 2 or 3 famous examples off hand. That is how these women are. They usually have it better then guys their age when they're younger. But then they lose it as they get older. They become irrelevant. It is like poetic justice for when they were young and didn't want the nerdy, loser, geeky guys. They end up on par with those same guys in terms of market value to the opposite sex.
 

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PappyS said:
There are lots of decent looking youthful virgin guys in their teens/early 20s who can't get any girls. Meanwhile there are old men with money, power and status who bang young women. I can think of 2 or 3 famous examples off hand. That is how these women are. They usually have it better then guys their age when they're younger. But then they lose it as they get older. They become irrelevant. It is like poetic justice for when they were young and didn't want the nerdy, loser, geeky guys. They end up on par with those same guys in terms of market value to the opposite sex.
money looks or both ok yeah thats what it takes to get the job done i think every one knows that.. and most young women have a young pretty young boy and and old sugar dady in the F lists.. duh..
 
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