"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women and men are different

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Some people act like men should be attracted to what women are attracted to and vice versa. It just doesn't work like that.

You have women who say they're successful with good careers, college educations, degrees, prominent jobs, power, own homes, cars, good credit, etc. Yet they complain that they can't find a man of the caliber they want. Truth is that has nothing to do with attraction for men. Men just want young, attractive women with high fertility.

Similarly, women don't care too much if a guy is young and good looking. Women are only attracted to social status. They only care about good looks or muscles in so much as these things may be indicators of status or power.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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*grabs popcorn, sits back and waits for 3 pages of arguments and bs*
 

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Yes. Pretty straightforward, isn't it!
 

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OMG. is it really that simple!?

i've been doing it wrong the whole time. I guess when a girl says I'm hot it means she likes how i'm rich and famous....even though i'm not

it''s all so clear to me now

I only like girls that will give me good babies? I guess that's something else i've been missing
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pappy

I'm one of the older guys here. With regard to your thread, I agree and disagree. Due to my age and status, I think I know what I'm talking about here.

Many women will give a young guy who has nothing going for him other than his looks, the ONS and not think twice about it. I think this happens more than we know. In my case, I'm married. BUT, I get strong signals from lots of women who are 20-30 yrs my junior. Good looking too! Why? They know what I do for a living and know where I live. It's a status thing as you say. Lots of them are attracted to money, material stuff and status. I'm still in really good shape and don't look my age, or so I'm told. The ones I'm talking about don't even care if I'm taken. They just want a well to do guy and no question they would give it up in a heartbeat to enjoy the fruits of my labor all these years. I'm not bragging here, it's just the truth.

Given this, and some may disagree, you younger guys should continue with your education and status in life. Then the cooch will come a runnin'. Just know what you are dealing with and don't become emotionally attached.

If I wasn't married, I could be swimmin' in fur, and early mornin' dew.
 

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DonGorgon said:
um good looks are usually a pre requisite for many women even listening to what u have to say..lol
There are lots of decent looking youthful virgin guys in their teens/early 20s who can't get any girls. Meanwhile there are old men with money, power and status who bang young women. I can think of 2 or 3 famous examples off hand. That is how these women are. They usually have it better then guys their age when they're younger. But then they lose it as they get older. They become irrelevant. It is like poetic justice for when they were young and didn't want the nerdy, loser, geeky guys. They end up on par with those same guys in terms of market value to the opposite sex.
 

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PappyS said:
There are lots of decent looking youthful virgin guys in their teens/early 20s who can't get any girls. Meanwhile there are old men with money, power and status who bang young women. I can think of 2 or 3 famous examples off hand. That is how these women are. They usually have it better then guys their age when they're younger. But then they lose it as they get older. They become irrelevant. It is like poetic justice for when they were young and didn't want the nerdy, loser, geeky guys. They end up on par with those same guys in terms of market value to the opposite sex.
money looks or both ok yeah thats what it takes to get the job done i think every one knows that.. and most young women have a young pretty young boy and and old sugar dady in the F lists.. duh..
 
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