"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Edit: I'd appreciate if the post was retitled: "Womens' collective psychosis".
Well, this may seem like your everyday thread, but I think I may be on to something phenomenal here, though I'm only in the beginning stages of figuring it out, so I won't be able to articulate my thoughts in a concise way.

I watched The Mack, Willie Dynamite and started listening and reading a lot of Tariq Nasheed.
I cut off contact to my female "friend" a month ago.
Then yesterday I went on a blind date with the most submissive girl I'd ever seen. She bought me dinner at the end of the night.

The slogan that would embody my standpoint towards success with women, would be this: Purse First, Ass Last.

Now, what this leads me to believe, is that most of the women we're dealing with are essentially psychotic.

My mom has a "girlfriend", and they were having some coffee in the living room, when I walk in the room, she has her eyes locked on me already. This is the behavior of a woman trying to be dominant.

A girl I know told me recently that she knew that she was actually being selfish by trying to wear the pants in every relationship, but she didn't bother to think about that any deeper.

Then I look into Elle magazine while taking a sh!t the other day, and what do I see but an article about the "fagification" (loose translation) of men, and their portrayal as sex objects in the media, leading to women acting like predators. When the article came upon the question what psychological effect this had on men, they concluded the article saying something along the lines of this: "just as we women were having so much fun, things get complicated. We will always be women", and neglected to come to the point.

So here in the middle of Elle magazine, you see womens liberation really exposing the ignorance in women. Women are trying to wear the pants just for the hell of it. They know it doesn't fit, and that the pants are supposed to belong to the man, but as long as the man doesn't claim the pants, the woman will prance around in them.

So, from now on I am not even going to tolerate EYEBALLING from women. I'm serious. Women better show me submissive behavior.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always force the lookaway..I think its funny, especially when I am in the gym...
 

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What are you gonna do if the woman is outranking you such as in job situations?
 

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PapiChulo said:
What are you gonna do if the woman is outranking you such as in job situations?
flirt
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PapiChulo said:
What are you gonna do if the woman is outranking you such as in job situations?
Don't let it phase you. Remain professional, if you let her presence mess with you, you're officially a man of lower status than her, and kinda pathetic.

My manager/mentor is a mid 30s HOTT Latina from Brooklyn who makes seven figures a year. Don't let your d1ck ruin things for you.
 

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Chamber36 said:
I do that alright.... but what if she is a 200 lbs dyke with a mustache, and it would be degrading to do flirt with "it".
 
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