"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Edit: I'd appreciate if the post was retitled: "Womens' collective psychosis".
Well, this may seem like your everyday thread, but I think I may be on to something phenomenal here, though I'm only in the beginning stages of figuring it out, so I won't be able to articulate my thoughts in a concise way.

I watched The Mack, Willie Dynamite and started listening and reading a lot of Tariq Nasheed.
I cut off contact to my female "friend" a month ago.
Then yesterday I went on a blind date with the most submissive girl I'd ever seen. She bought me dinner at the end of the night.

The slogan that would embody my standpoint towards success with women, would be this: Purse First, Ass Last.

Now, what this leads me to believe, is that most of the women we're dealing with are essentially psychotic.

My mom has a "girlfriend", and they were having some coffee in the living room, when I walk in the room, she has her eyes locked on me already. This is the behavior of a woman trying to be dominant.

A girl I know told me recently that she knew that she was actually being selfish by trying to wear the pants in every relationship, but she didn't bother to think about that any deeper.

Then I look into Elle magazine while taking a sh!t the other day, and what do I see but an article about the "fagification" (loose translation) of men, and their portrayal as sex objects in the media, leading to women acting like predators. When the article came upon the question what psychological effect this had on men, they concluded the article saying something along the lines of this: "just as we women were having so much fun, things get complicated. We will always be women", and neglected to come to the point.

So here in the middle of Elle magazine, you see womens liberation really exposing the ignorance in women. Women are trying to wear the pants just for the hell of it. They know it doesn't fit, and that the pants are supposed to belong to the man, but as long as the man doesn't claim the pants, the woman will prance around in them.

So, from now on I am not even going to tolerate EYEBALLING from women. I'm serious. Women better show me submissive behavior.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I always force the lookaway..I think its funny, especially when I am in the gym...
 

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What are you gonna do if the woman is outranking you such as in job situations?
 

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PapiChulo said:
What are you gonna do if the woman is outranking you such as in job situations?
flirt
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PapiChulo said:
What are you gonna do if the woman is outranking you such as in job situations?
Don't let it phase you. Remain professional, if you let her presence mess with you, you're officially a man of lower status than her, and kinda pathetic.

My manager/mentor is a mid 30s HOTT Latina from Brooklyn who makes seven figures a year. Don't let your d1ck ruin things for you.
 

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Chamber36 said:
I do that alright.... but what if she is a 200 lbs dyke with a mustache, and it would be degrading to do flirt with "it".
 
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