Women always seem to beat around the bush

[mahon83050]

Has anyone ever had a women you were pursuing bluntly tell you why they were not interested?

I.E.

There is a chick at work I have been after. I get some good vibes from her, but she seems to play some mind games.

The other day I saw her going out to eat with some other guy. She could be seeing the guy for all I know, but I always believe women will always make some excuse: Instead of saying, Oh, I am not attracted to you or Oh, I am seeing somebody. It seems they will just beat around the bush and not tell you the truth.

Another example,,,,,I asked this other chick out via e-mail (I did not have her #) and she said sure,,,maybe when I get back from Vegas...I then asked for her # and she never got back to me in the past three weeks.

IMO, I think most women take the easy way out because they do not want to hurt your feelings.

 

[Juan_Man]

I learned that the key to dealing with these types of women is to do your own thing and act like you don't care. Indifference is the most important DJ trait to have in my opinion.

 

[Hollowpoint]

I don't have anything to add or say, except for the fact that I saw "women" and "bush" in the thread title.

Originally posted by mahon83050
IMO, I think most women take the easy way out because they do not want to hurt your feelings.

I wonder how many times this has been discussed before.
You are correct.

 

[DJ_Dork]

the only way i can tell if the girl wants me is if i'm getting some sex action, if not then i always act aloof/indifferent, but then again i also play some flirt/mind games to push their buttons...

 

[SDBmania]

Women usually tell me when they have boyfriends, usually after I aske them out.

 

[syemour]

after all those posts you just found that out?

 

[ShortTimer]

Originally posted by mahon83050
IMO, I think most women take the easy way out because they do not want to hurt your feelings.

They take the easy way out because they don't have the self-esteem's to say "no."