"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You make very good points here BeExcellent. I would personally rather be with one my age, it helps in the emotional department, among everything else. I live much closer to Peoria than CA unfortunately, lol! And not likely to change soon due to family. No babies for me either, been to the vet myself.

The point concerning Cougars is that's what the gals talk about around me, that they still have a slim body for them. I just ordered an Abs over 40 two weeks ago, so I'm going to find mine again. Not looking for my six pack, more likely to find that in the fridge than on me, and I'm not a drinker anymore...I'm not fat, but not 20 anymore either. But I'm working on that.

There are some around that stay in shape, but you really have to be in what I call the 5-10% crowd here to have a chance @ that. My friend tells me I should just drop my standards because it's more realistic here. Where I am, gals with bodies have an entitlement attitude (group mentality) about who is acceptable. I'm not 6', near six-figure income nor dress like a GQ model so that puts me in a disposition. I read some interesting stats recently. Seems 80-90% of the gals on web dating sites prefer a 6' or taller man. But the percentage of those men is currently around 14% of the population. So this leaves us men in a bit of a pickle, i.e. we can't be good enough for these fabulous gals. :)
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrgoodstuff

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You make very good points here BeExcellent. I would personally rather be with one my age, it helps in the emotional department, among everything else. I live much closer to Peoria than CA unfortunately, lol! And not likely to change soon due to family. No babies for me either, been to the vet myself.

The point concerning Cougars is that's what the gals talk about around me, that they still have a slim body for them. I just ordered an Abs over 40 two weeks ago, so i'm going to find mine again. Not looking for my six pack, more likely to find that in the fridge than on me, and I'm not a drinker anymore...I'm not fat, but not 20 anymore either. But I'm working on that.

There are some around that stay in shape, but you really have to be in what I call the 5-10% crowd here to have a chance @ that. My friend tells me I should just drop my standards because it's more realistic here. Where I am, gals with bodies have an entitlement attitude (group mentality) about who is acceptable. I'm not 6', near six-figure income nor dress like a GQ model so that puts me in a disposition. I read some interesting stats recently. Seems 80-90% of the gals on web dating sites prefer a 6' or taller man. But the percentage of those men is currently around 14% of the population. So this leaves us men in a bit of a pickle, i.e. we can't be good enough for these fabulous gals. :)
Yep, they are just incredible and will change your life for the better. I'm sure if you ignore that small segment of the population there are a lot of women who will be happy to have you.
 

ubercat

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Don't worry OnceBitten

I am over 6 foot and earn a six figure salary. I still get ignored by OLD girls all the time. I also shag plenty of them and have had LTRs off it as well. Pure numbers game keep your sense of humour and just keep swinging.

I m 50. Prefer the 35 to 45 market. At that age they have a personality and still acceptable tits. I'm not a fan of the empty plastic bag look. There really needs to be a pill for that. Fakies are not common in Australia. I specialise in Asian girls so they always look 10 years younger anyway skinwise. And I mean Asian girls who r here in Australia and r well established no Imports. Remember there are plenty of options if you're willing to look at other segments of the market.
 
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