"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Woman's Phone Number

LADawg49

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I need some advice when it comes to asking for a woman's phone number in a confident manner. I can approach, start the convo but have a hard time number closing so I wanted to know, which is the best way to ask for her number while sounding confident at the same time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LADawg49

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Thank you so much man.. I approached two women in my car today. Didn't get numbers but I feel more confident. With the first one, she was real attractive, so I honked at her. she looked and heres how it went:
Me: I noticed u got some Jamba Juice with you.
She: Yea I do.
Me: What flavor u got?
She: Carribean Passion.
Me: Damn, that sounds great got some for me.
She was laughin, then I motion for her to come over..
Me: BTW my name is **** , whats yours?
Her: My name is *****.
Me: Its a pleasure to meet u.
Then I ask her what she doin in school and where she work at and what days she work at.
Me: How bout I get your number so we can continue this?
She: Naw, Im cool I got a boyfriend.
Convo ends..
To all: What advice would yall give me when it comes to improving my game for next time?
 

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What I usually do

I usually cut the conversation off first, and say something to the effect of (usually with some smartass teasing thrown in): "been cool chatting with you, but I'm <<taking off, going to the lavatory, whatever>>, so we'll have to pick it up at a later date, what's your number?"

I always say "what's your #?," rather than "can I get your number?" It's a subtle matter of assuming the affirmative, and showing control of the situation. Control is sexy.
 

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This is pathetic.

"I gotta sound confident"

"What's the best tactic"

Pathetic.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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