"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Woman's Phone Number

LADawg49

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I need some advice when it comes to asking for a woman's phone number in a confident manner. I can approach, start the convo but have a hard time number closing so I wanted to know, which is the best way to ask for her number while sounding confident at the same time?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LADawg49

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Thank you so much man.. I approached two women in my car today. Didn't get numbers but I feel more confident. With the first one, she was real attractive, so I honked at her. she looked and heres how it went:
Me: I noticed u got some Jamba Juice with you.
She: Yea I do.
Me: What flavor u got?
She: Carribean Passion.
Me: Damn, that sounds great got some for me.
She was laughin, then I motion for her to come over..
Me: BTW my name is **** , whats yours?
Her: My name is *****.
Me: Its a pleasure to meet u.
Then I ask her what she doin in school and where she work at and what days she work at.
Me: How bout I get your number so we can continue this?
She: Naw, Im cool I got a boyfriend.
Convo ends..
To all: What advice would yall give me when it comes to improving my game for next time?
 

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What I usually do

I usually cut the conversation off first, and say something to the effect of (usually with some smartass teasing thrown in): "been cool chatting with you, but I'm <<taking off, going to the lavatory, whatever>>, so we'll have to pick it up at a later date, what's your number?"

I always say "what's your #?," rather than "can I get your number?" It's a subtle matter of assuming the affirmative, and showing control of the situation. Control is sexy.
 

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This is pathetic.

"I gotta sound confident"

"What's the best tactic"

Pathetic.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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