"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We've all heard many times about the tests that women use on us. Yet I have seen any posts that we can use on them to test character, but then again I'm fairly new here.
There's two tests that I know of:
1) Do you want this woman to be mother of your child (only applies later on in life...)
2) Open the car door for her, with the drivers side door locked, will she unlock it? If she doesn't that means she's a selfish b!tch and get away from her (from Bronx Tale... great movie :) )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't quite agree to this.. I think it's kinda girlie to have a girl pass a certain test. I think there's many things you can pick up from normal behaviour that tells you what kinda girl she is. Pay attention to how she treats other people, stuff like that.

Don't keep a list or grade her according to some test.

That's just my opinion.
 
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Oh I definitely agree that they shouldn't be taken literarlly, but they could still be good clues to her personality.

Any 'hardass' tests that you know of?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: wrong forum

Originally posted by gentleman193
Guys, this should be on the main board.
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Yeah I agree.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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