"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Woman tests

Don_Marko

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We've all heard many times about the tests that women use on us. Yet I have seen any posts that we can use on them to test character, but then again I'm fairly new here.
There's two tests that I know of:
1) Do you want this woman to be mother of your child (only applies later on in life...)
2) Open the car door for her, with the drivers side door locked, will she unlock it? If she doesn't that means she's a selfish b!tch and get away from her (from Bronx Tale... great movie :) )
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Caveman

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I don't quite agree to this.. I think it's kinda girlie to have a girl pass a certain test. I think there's many things you can pick up from normal behaviour that tells you what kinda girl she is. Pay attention to how she treats other people, stuff like that.

Don't keep a list or grade her according to some test.

That's just my opinion.
 

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Oh I definitely agree that they shouldn't be taken literarlly, but they could still be good clues to her personality.

Any 'hardass' tests that you know of?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: wrong forum

Originally posted by gentleman193
Guys, this should be on the main board.
Yeah I agree.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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