jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
What do you think.. many women stay for the kids or financial reasons.
"He's lazy 4ssh0le"
"He's lazy 4ssh0le"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Woman settles for her husband who doesn't want to go to the gym
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sevbucmash
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Some women just like big men. They find them sexually appealing.
taiyuu_otoko
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You guys need to ditch the idea that women are super human selectors who can easily get any guy they want.
Ladies settle for guys for the same reason dudes do.
They can't do any better.
And most of the reasons for this have nothing to do with how somebody looks.
Ladies settle for guys for the same reason dudes do.
They can't do any better.
And most of the reasons for this have nothing to do with how somebody looks.
BaronOfHair
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They HIDE behind that rationalization. The truth is far less glitzy:
"I'm terrified of my life changing too much, so I choose to remain where I'm at, express my dissatisfaction in passive-aggressive ways + The occasional violent tantrum"
jhonny9546
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My POV it's that they're actually fine, but not satisfied with their current man.
But they can still have a good lifestyle.
But they can still have a good lifestyle.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Travel memoir21
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lol…… And the ironic part is those middle class, eat fast food on the weekends, have bbqs on Sundays with the game on after Church, with cookies and junk food in the pantries after playing board games after dinner are the best types of environment to foster and raise children in the most urbanistic loving type of fashion. Sort of like Kevin Arnold from The Wonder Years, living in The Suburbs has its own benefits.
BaronOfHair
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Goes to a point made here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...-a-mans-financial-status.285630/#post-3183407
Truly securing freedom(Freedom from our own unhappiness included) requires us to charge through fire, and swim across a sea clogged up with pin worm infested dog sh-t, in order to get it. Thus, most people chose to "settle", then vent their dissatisfaction on social media, so as to avoid discomfort
The sort of women described in The OP (been married for awhile, birthed 2.5 kids by some yutz who makes a decent living, yet is duller than dish water)are generally past the peak of their physical attractiveness, are well aware of this fact + That dating and snagging a partner is going to mean exerting a lot more effort than they did at age 19
That most of these gals choose to remain miserable rather than going that monetary pain, is LESS surprising than learning that, of the few millions who travel to Hollywood each year seeking careers in show business, MOST high tail it back to Paducah or Patterson once they discover how unglamorous the life of an actor/screenwriter/producer/director/editor/stunt man is
Truly securing freedom(Freedom from our own unhappiness included) requires us to charge through fire, and swim across a sea clogged up with pin worm infested dog sh-t, in order to get it. Thus, most people chose to "settle", then vent their dissatisfaction on social media, so as to avoid discomfort
The sort of women described in The OP (been married for awhile, birthed 2.5 kids by some yutz who makes a decent living, yet is duller than dish water)are generally past the peak of their physical attractiveness, are well aware of this fact + That dating and snagging a partner is going to mean exerting a lot more effort than they did at age 19
That most of these gals choose to remain miserable rather than going that monetary pain, is LESS surprising than learning that, of the few millions who travel to Hollywood each year seeking careers in show business, MOST high tail it back to Paducah or Patterson once they discover how unglamorous the life of an actor/screenwriter/producer/director/editor/stunt man is
jhonny9546
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As a man, you want to know if a woman you meet in your life is that type of woman, whether she's single or currently in a relationship. How do you filter it?
There must be clear signals.
Ps: very good analysis
BaronOfHair
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The list provided here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/your-top-10-red-flags-to-look-out-for.269447/ is a swell start
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.