jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
What do you think.. many women stay for the kids or financial reasons.
"He's lazy 4ssh0le"
"He's lazy 4ssh0le"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Woman settles for her husband who doesn't want to go to the gym
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sevbucmash
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Some women just like big men. They find them sexually appealing.
taiyuu_otoko
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You guys need to ditch the idea that women are super human selectors who can easily get any guy they want.
Ladies settle for guys for the same reason dudes do.
They can't do any better.
And most of the reasons for this have nothing to do with how somebody looks.
Ladies settle for guys for the same reason dudes do.
They can't do any better.
And most of the reasons for this have nothing to do with how somebody looks.
BaronOfHair
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They HIDE behind that rationalization. The truth is far less glitzy:
"I'm terrified of my life changing too much, so I choose to remain where I'm at, express my dissatisfaction in passive-aggressive ways + The occasional violent tantrum"
jhonny9546
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My POV it's that they're actually fine, but not satisfied with their current man.
But they can still have a good lifestyle.
But they can still have a good lifestyle.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Travel memoir21
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lol…… And the ironic part is those middle class, eat fast food on the weekends, have bbqs on Sundays with the game on after Church, with cookies and junk food in the pantries after playing board games after dinner are the best types of environment to foster and raise children in the most urbanistic loving type of fashion. Sort of like Kevin Arnold from The Wonder Years, living in The Suburbs has its own benefits.
BaronOfHair
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Goes to a point made here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...-a-mans-financial-status.285630/#post-3183407
Truly securing freedom(Freedom from our own unhappiness included) requires us to charge through fire, and swim across a sea clogged up with pin worm infested dog sh-t, in order to get it. Thus, most people chose to "settle", then vent their dissatisfaction on social media, so as to avoid discomfort
The sort of women described in The OP (been married for awhile, birthed 2.5 kids by some yutz who makes a decent living, yet is duller than dish water)are generally past the peak of their physical attractiveness, are well aware of this fact + That dating and snagging a partner is going to mean exerting a lot more effort than they did at age 19
That most of these gals choose to remain miserable rather than going that monetary pain, is LESS surprising than learning that, of the few millions who travel to Hollywood each year seeking careers in show business, MOST high tail it back to Paducah or Patterson once they discover how unglamorous the life of an actor/screenwriter/producer/director/editor/stunt man is
Truly securing freedom(Freedom from our own unhappiness included) requires us to charge through fire, and swim across a sea clogged up with pin worm infested dog sh-t, in order to get it. Thus, most people chose to "settle", then vent their dissatisfaction on social media, so as to avoid discomfort
The sort of women described in The OP (been married for awhile, birthed 2.5 kids by some yutz who makes a decent living, yet is duller than dish water)are generally past the peak of their physical attractiveness, are well aware of this fact + That dating and snagging a partner is going to mean exerting a lot more effort than they did at age 19
That most of these gals choose to remain miserable rather than going that monetary pain, is LESS surprising than learning that, of the few millions who travel to Hollywood each year seeking careers in show business, MOST high tail it back to Paducah or Patterson once they discover how unglamorous the life of an actor/screenwriter/producer/director/editor/stunt man is
jhonny9546
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As a man, you want to know if a woman you meet in your life is that type of woman, whether she's single or currently in a relationship. How do you filter it?
There must be clear signals.
Ps: very good analysis
BaronOfHair
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The list provided here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/your-top-10-red-flags-to-look-out-for.269447/ is a swell start
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.