“Healing” implies that they are damaged. If a chic needs to do that much ”work”, I’d run the other direction.Part of their "healing" work is attempting to get new men in their lives to pay for the damage incurred by past men they've made mistakes with. By trying to act feminine on the surface when they're not, and jacking up the price of the P (often via bait-and-switching their sexual availability level). If it all fails, and it will, they can still revel in victimhood.