"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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woman on TV says "almost impossible" for mid 30's wife to find new husband

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MatureDJ said:
I wonder what the feminists are saying about this! :crackup:
They would say "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"

Actually not just them, all of the cathedral apparently. Just type in the first 3 words to that sentence into google "A woman needs". Have a guess what the first query is?

However "except his tax dollars...Oh and maybe his head coz those jobs are icky and stuff" is not following it for some reason. Weird.
 

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. Just type in the first 3 words to that sentence into google "A woman needs". Have a guess what the first query is?
..to get back in the kitchen. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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noobolgy said:
Lol. Mine said ... love
My mistake. The first four "A woman needs a"

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..to get back in the kitchen. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Heh true. But first we got to re-teach them it's more than just a place where frozen chicken nuggets and cat food is kept.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Even with many men being hesitant to marry now, a woman can still always find a husband. She just needs to accept what she can get-not well-to-do male model she thinks she deserves-and not be such a b!tch.

Women confusing their sexual market value for their LTR market value :nono:.
 

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Hahahaha so I guess my 35 year old BPD with 2 illegitimate kids is out of luck? Yet there she is, posting herself online with 3 pounds of makeup as if that will bring Mr. Right along. Looking forward to seeing that ho feeding cats the rest of her life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MatureDJ said:
I wonder what the feminists are saying about this! :crackup:
Don't need to go far to find out, comment section is as expected.

That's funny, I met my husband at the age of 37, and now we have an amazing child and a really happy marriage. And I DON'T meet him at the door with a ****tail (not that he'd likely drink it.) We have an egalitarian marriage based on love and mutual respect. We almost never fight, if I was someone else I'd probably hate us. ;) These people are just flailing in desperation as culture changes. Hopefully they'll all die off soon. And I really hope no woman wastes a Princeton education looking for a husband.
Boom, there it is, egalitarian marriage. I think that's a feminist's new favorite word. It's okay to get married, just as long as the husband is emasculated.
 

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Well good. For each one woman who has to SETTLE to get married and/or get her \|/ tingling, there must be one like minded man like us refusing to put up with her bullsh!t... Right!??
 

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Well good. For each one woman who has to SETTLE to get married and/or get her \|/ tingling, there must be one like minded man like us refusing to put up with her bullsh!t... Right!??
 

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Well good. For each one woman who has to SETTLE to get married and/or get her \|/ tingling, there must be one like minded man like us refusing to put up with her bullsh!t... Right!??
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think that by the time a man hits his mid 30s, he's a lot more wary of the idea of getting married. He has more life experience, and he may have gone through a divorce himself. I think there are plenty of guys around to date women in their mid 30s, they just may not be too eager to tie the know.

In contrast, I know several couples in their early 20s recently who got married rather quickly, after knowing each other for only about six months. Younger men are surprisingly more likely to jump into something like this, maybe because they think they've found "real love" with the sudden rush of hormones. Women will too, but they don't risk as much as the man does. If anything, these days, the more husbands a woman collects, the more streams of income she produces.
 

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Vulpine said:
•in a monotone voice•

I will obey.
I will obey.
I will obey.

lol My apologies for the tripple post.
 

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zekko said:
I think that by the time a man hits his mid 30s, he's a lot more wary of the idea of getting married. He has more life experience, and he may have gone through a divorce himself. I think there are plenty of guys around to date women in their mid 30s, they just may not be too eager to tie the know.

In contrast, I know several couples in their early 20s recently who got married rather quickly, after knowing each other for only about six months. Younger men are surprisingly more likely to jump into something like this, maybe because they think they've found "real love" with the sudden rush of hormones. Women will too, but they don't risk as much as the man does. If anything, these days, the more husbands a woman collects, the more streams of income she produces.
I think a big factor is a female in her early 20's has a lot more bargaining power and value to get married. I think more of these mid-30's guys would commit to marriage if it was an early 20's girl.
 

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I think men in their 20s are more likely to marry because there is less pressure to do so.

In your 20s, dating and relationships are fun. You spend time with people you like and are attracted to and/or have feelings for. Marriage might even seem EXCITING to a young guy in love (or more likely lust lol).

In your 30s (and up), it becomes a society expectation and a business transaction. Thus, it's much less fun and exciting. 20s women date you because you're cute, and they want to F you. 30s women date you because you have a job and her clock is ticking and her sister's cousin-in-law just got married and two ladies in her office are pregnant lol.

As age increases, women and some men feel more pressure which makes dating and the prospect of marriage LESS appealing.
 

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hazaaa gimme a break, it's Fox News. It's basically the 700 Club combined with Jerry Springer. Its audience consists of christian rednecks and the elderly. What do you expect to be on it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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