I would like to hear your thoughts as to why you think this was as I believe a girl should always be looking for an older man. My guess is that a decent looking 36 year old man with a job and no debt is going to be looking for a younger girl......backbreaker said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Woman on Huffington Post throws down the Gauntlet against single middle aged women
- Thread starter backbreaker
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
You took my post a tad bit too literary. All I meant was that a woman should be looking for her equal in life, not always looking for prince charming. To quote rick pitno "bratt pitt ain't walkin through that door"
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I've read that on average, a woman likes a male to be four years older than she is. The extra experience gives her something to look up to, I suppose. And a chance for him to get a little further along in life.jhl said: