I would like to hear your thoughts as to why you think this was as I believe a girl should always be looking for an older man. My guess is that a decent looking 36 year old man with a job and no debt is going to be looking for a younger girl......backbreaker said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Woman on Huffington Post throws down the Gauntlet against single middle aged women
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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You took my post a tad bit too literary. All I meant was that a woman should be looking for her equal in life, not always looking for prince charming. To quote rick pitno "bratt pitt ain't walkin through that door"
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I've read that on average, a woman likes a male to be four years older than she is. The extra experience gives her something to look up to, I suppose. And a chance for him to get a little further along in life.jhl said: