I would like to hear your thoughts as to why you think this was as I believe a girl should always be looking for an older man. My guess is that a decent looking 36 year old man with a job and no debt is going to be looking for a younger girl......backbreaker said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Woman on Huffington Post throws down the Gauntlet against single middle aged women
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You took my post a tad bit too literary. All I meant was that a woman should be looking for her equal in life, not always looking for prince charming. To quote rick pitno "bratt pitt ain't walkin through that door"
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I've read that on average, a woman likes a male to be four years older than she is. The extra experience gives her something to look up to, I suppose. And a chance for him to get a little further along in life.jhl said: