I would like to hear your thoughts as to why you think this was as I believe a girl should always be looking for an older man. My guess is that a decent looking 36 year old man with a job and no debt is going to be looking for a younger girl......backbreaker said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Woman on Huffington Post throws down the Gauntlet against single middle aged women
- Thread starter backbreaker
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
You took my post a tad bit too literary. All I meant was that a woman should be looking for her equal in life, not always looking for prince charming. To quote rick pitno "bratt pitt ain't walkin through that door"
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I've read that on average, a woman likes a male to be four years older than she is. The extra experience gives her something to look up to, I suppose. And a chance for him to get a little further along in life.jhl said: