That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Definitely not.So i encountered this in the past and recently happened the same from a different girl .
The question? The girl finished too fast . In less than 10 minutes of play time .
As i said , it happened in the past but had no experience then . It happened now again .
Why? Premature orgasm? Too horny ?Was i too good or too bad for this to happen?
The last chick where this happened we fcked twice. First time She finished while i was penetrating and the second time while fingering her . Should i worry about my performance?
I truly can‘t read anything in your posts, that should concern you. Especially not about your performance.Update :
We met last Friday night in her place . We were both tired . We were sitting on the couch and i felt horny so i started playing with her . She was down for some play time and we went straight to the bed . She just wanted that we lay on the bed and make out . She started playing with my D and i went with my hand on her V . Started fingering her and playing with her **** . We were doing that for as long as 30 minutes along with some dirty talk . Kept the pace slow and changed the speed all the time . She seemed to like it and enjoying the whole moment . When i upped the speed she finished but she kept playing with my D till i was able to finish. As soon as i finished we laid there for some time and then i left cause i had to wake up early the next day .
So whats ya all think about the whole situation? Should i worry about anything as i explained in my op?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
so you didnt... "finish her" ?As soon as i finished we laid there for some time and then i left
I did finished her . I went very hard on her in last moment and that’s when she finished.so you didnt... "finish her" ?
you need to DESTROY her before any finishing yourself... whether your finger, tongue or D
you stepped up to bat - hey batter batter
you hit the ball - yay
you made it to 3rd base... - woo
advice:
you should be swinging for HOME RUNS
What kind of info should i provide? I think i was quite detailed in my explanation .Women are capable of multiple orgasms. Unless she's drunk and half passed out, before you even get into bed, it shouldn't be a problem. Women can, sometimes, be a little sensitive, immediately after orgasm, but the only issue with continuing usually is imposed by the male refractory period. If you're habitually falling into bed with girls who finish before you do, don't want to continue, afterwards, and are feeling no compulsion to help you finish...yeah, you're probably doing a few things wrong, but more info is needed to determine exactly what.
The first time i slept on her place , and the next morning we played a bit again but i had to leave and didn’t make her finish . The other times is as i explained .Was she drinking?
Did she pass out, after she got off?
Did she get up and leave, after she got off?
Are these one-offs, or girls seeking a repeat performance?
If she's into you, she'll want to get you off; if she isn't really into you, she may just want to get you off of her.
There's a lot of missing information.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My guess would be inexperience. I’ve been with many women and i could tell the difference if she was experienced or not . I’m not inexperienced myself . She is too selfish to be taught and i ain’t got the patience or being too attracted to her and teach her some moves . Times to focus on different things . Another chapter for my life is opening!Could be inexperience, but if that's it, she should be receptive to being taught. However, taking a break from women is never a bad idea.