Woman are not as loyal as you think: Must Read!

[Peaks&Valleys]

Stop playing the victim.

Pairs, this time, and this time only, you should listen to your own advice.

 

[GotED?]

Well... kids in the hall.... are we done with the bickering? Back to our regularly scheduled programming?

Since I am the 'neutral SS DJ' - I am just keeping with the topic here and have some input myself.

I am also learning slowly (yeah, at age 41 - about time!) how immoral SOME women are - I have not been convinced yet that MOST women are, however; my shocking innocent and naive perspective on women my whole life who I thought were mostly trustworthy are also mostly untrue.

I am a very spiritually driven person so every 1 or 2 years, I spend a week or two OVERNIGHT at a local spiritual college which gives week long in-house courses on various topics.

The ratio of women in these places are overwhelmingly 80-90% with a small minority of men (and of those men, over 50% are gay). That leaves a tiny footprint of straight male men in these week long overnight courses.

I just came back last week from this place, being probably the only GOOD LOOKING single straight male in the damn place, I was bombarded by 30+ or so women who I don't think I met one that was truthfully SINGLE.

There was this extremely hot blonde 27yr old from Sweden who was as doll-like as she can be. We were naturally attracted to each other immediately - and she couldn't stop 'appearing' around or near me through out the day. She bragged that she had a boyfriend - then I kept my distance because I am not the type of man to dishonor a person's loyalty to another even if that person can not honor it herself.

Regardless, she kept talking and flirting with me - Day 2 I sat her down late at night one on one and told her off that nothing is going to happen between me and her, and don't take it personally if I intentionally keep my distance from her. Guess what? That just made her MORE interested in me! LOL....

Some women just have no moral compass or a sense of duty to their personal integrity or faithfulness. I am starting to believe that ignoring a beautiful woman and making her feel like NOTHING (bruished her ego which she rarely experiences), will actually RAISE her interest level in you because you become a challenge (she even told me that at the end LOL).

I was quite sad overall with multiple married women there, or with boyfriends, with the way they were responding to me whether from my approach, or they initiated themselves. These were European women from all across the world (Dutch, Australian, Swedish, German, etc).

Yes, this is a good thread - makes me more weary of women that I date and putting more hurdles for these b!tches to jump over before they get the time and day from me.

Exodus

 

[Kailex]

As an addendum to my earlier story about the cheating Meetup girl. She found out through a mutual friend that I, in fact, do go out with other women and have been spotted at other places.

She is angry at me and has told someone within our group that if I am at future events, she won't be there. Mind you, I am an organizer within that group. When she was asked as to the "why", she simply stated that she didn't like the way I treated women.

Most of the people there were baffled because they've never seen this of me and had no idea what she was talking about because I've never hit on anyone within the group.

Even though she has a boyfriend and a problematic relationship, she draws the line at me being able to go out with anyone else. How dare I!? She is in a relationship for 3 years and is willing to chance all of that for a few lays with someone her boyfriend knows, but if I want to go around (while having 0 committment to her), I am IMMEDIATELY the villain.

So interesting how they dress up their own imaginary worlds to fit whatever reality they want to wear at the time. And this is why I always keep my distance with any girl willing to cheat on her boyfriend.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

As an addendum to my earlier story about the cheating Meetup girl. She found out through a mutual friend that I, in fact, do go out with other women and have been spotted at other places.

She is angry at me and has told someone within our group that if I am at future events, she won't be there. Mind you, I am an organizer within that group. When she was asked as to the "why", she simply stated that she didn't like the way I treated women.

Most of the people there were baffled because they've never seen this of me and had no idea what she was talking about because I've never hit on anyone within the group.

Even though she has a boyfriend and a problematic relationship, she draws the line at me being able to go out with anyone else. How dare I!? She is in a relationship for 3 years and is willing to chance all of that for a few lays with someone her boyfriend knows, but if I want to go around (while having 0 committment to her), I am IMMEDIATELY the villain.

So interesting how they dress up their own imaginary worlds to fit whatever reality they want to wear at the time. And this is why I always keep my distance with any girl willing to cheat on her boyfriend.

Do you still have texts from this woman?

After that, she's texted me once or twice to go "hang out". They are in the midst of "breaking up" anyway, she says.

If so, I'd hang onto em. This woman, might one day, if pressed, make up a story that you were coming on to her and blah, blah, blah. As it is right now, she's trying to sabotage you for whatever self-entitled reasoning is going through her hamster brain.