Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman advertises for husband

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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/asia-pacific/3755286.stm


A Chinese-Australian woman has taken out a giant billboard in a busy part of Sydney to advertise for a husband.

Headlined "Husband Wanted", Helen Zou outlines the sort of man she is seeking and gives out her email address asking for "serious replies only".

The billboard, measuring around four metres by five metres (13 ft by 16 ft), is sited at a major intersection in Sydney's eastern Randwick suburb.

Ms Zou, 40, a civil engineer, said she did not think her idea was so strange.

Surprise

"I'm surprised a lot of people think this is special or unusual," she told Sydney's Daily Telegraph.

"It's Australia. There's a lot of freedom here. If you can put up a sign advertising Coca Cola, why not write one about a husband?"

Under the headline, the billboard reads: "Beautiful, intelligent Australian-Chinese lady seeks to have dream family with a fabulous partner to enjoy a lifetime with."

She asks for a man "ideally in good health (non-smoker or drinker), aged up to 45, unencumbered and of Caucasian appearance".

Other requirements include a "good sense of humour, a solid financial background with warm and caring nature", preferably a businessman or professional.

According to the Telegraph, Ms Zou had been in a long-distance relationship which ended after five years.

The billboard, provided by Australian Posters, is due to stay up for a month.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What a Brilliant Tip, please post in the correct forums.
 

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Why would a 45+ year old man want a used up and probably messed up in the head 35 and older woman when there are plenty of under 35 year old women that will make dinner and perform oral sex for them?

If she was seriously good looking and was cool in the head, she wouldn't have to do this.

Since women have it easier in the world, I'm sure there will be a loser out there that will be willing to date this hag.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Why would a 45+ year old man want a used up and probably messed up in the head 35 and older woman when there are plenty of under 35 year old women that will make dinner and perform oral sex for them?

If she was seriously good looking and was cool in the head, she wouldn't have to do this.

Since women have it easier in the world, I'm sure there will be a loser out there that will be willing to date this hag.
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