"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Woman admits to being meal ticket?

ThisNThat

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There's this woman online, cute redhead, late 30s, going through a divorce (it'll be over in a month). Apparently she needed to still stay married for a year until the health benefits stopped for the year. Legal crap.

Anyways, shes' 37, wants to marry again...wants kids (even at her age)...and says she's on disability due to back problems...although the photos, she seems highly capable. Claims to cannot sit for long periods of time, even at a desk job. (I don't buy it).

I tried to trip her up, about why she wants kids if she has a bad back? She said, "The worst of it will be the third tri-mester, which I can muddle through it" I even asked her why didn't she have kids with her first husband? Apparently,s omething to do with him NOT wanting kids.

I wasn't really buying into it, but it's amazing how someone can admit all this in a profile and expect a man to support her 100% on her disablity?

I don't even buy the fact she's disable since she's clearly having a grand ol' time, standing/posing in her profile pics.

Basiclaly, she's looking to be a middle-aged, disabled stay-at-home mom.

If a MAN was in this situation? He'd be considered un-date-able, yes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jetleg

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Funny thing is, in every dating statistics i see, unemployed men are exempt from the data, like they are basically garbage.

Maybe we should treat overweight women the same?
 

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There's this woman online, cute redhead, late 30s, going through a divorce (it'll be over in a month). Apparently she needed to still stay married for a year until the health benefits stopped for the year. Legal crap.

Anyways, shes' 37, wants to marry again...wants kids (even at her age)...and says she's on disability due to back problems...although the photos, she seems highly capable. Claims to cannot sit for long periods of time, even at a desk job. (I don't buy it).

I tried to trip her up, about why she wants kids if she has a bad back? She said, "The worst of it will be the third tri-mester, which I can muddle through it" I even asked her why didn't she have kids with her first husband? Apparently,s omething to do with him NOT wanting kids.

I wasn't really buying into it, but it's amazing how someone can admit all this in a profile and expect a man to support her 100% on her disablity?

I don't even buy the fact she's disable since she's clearly having a grand ol' time, standing/posing in her profile pics.

Basiclaly, she's looking to be a middle-aged, disabled stay-at-home mom.

If a MAN was in this situation? He'd be considered un-date-able, yes?
Have someone you know, pose as an unemployed man on disability or welfare, who wants kids, hit her up for a date and see how she reacts.
 

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She's looking for a man to provide for her and that's very normal for women to do, but on the other hand, why would you even be remotely close to being that man for ****'s sake? If you're looking to provide for a woman that is supposedly going to bear, give birth and raise your child/children, why not look for a healthy one that does not pose so much because she actually has some character and some real values/skills LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, there's this one woman in 50% disability from the VA, but power lifts. She dabbles in stuff online...personal training, but she's not booked and does modeling gigs, too. But it's sparse.

She is married to a firefighter that's about to retire.

How can you be on disability if you power lift? Really? But maybe VA disability is different?
 

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She is likely on pain meds for back pain, and any woman over 35 is unlikely to bear healthy children. She is great for a ONS - then stay away.
 

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Have someone you know, pose as an unemployed man on disability or welfare, who wants kids, hit her up for a date and see how she reacts.
I've often wanted to send a friend to pose as a customer and secretly take my stripper gf to VIP and tell me what she is really like, but I know he'll fall in love with her.
 
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