"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Woman admits to being meal ticket?

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There's this woman online, cute redhead, late 30s, going through a divorce (it'll be over in a month). Apparently she needed to still stay married for a year until the health benefits stopped for the year. Legal crap.

Anyways, shes' 37, wants to marry again...wants kids (even at her age)...and says she's on disability due to back problems...although the photos, she seems highly capable. Claims to cannot sit for long periods of time, even at a desk job. (I don't buy it).

I tried to trip her up, about why she wants kids if she has a bad back? She said, "The worst of it will be the third tri-mester, which I can muddle through it" I even asked her why didn't she have kids with her first husband? Apparently,s omething to do with him NOT wanting kids.

I wasn't really buying into it, but it's amazing how someone can admit all this in a profile and expect a man to support her 100% on her disablity?

I don't even buy the fact she's disable since she's clearly having a grand ol' time, standing/posing in her profile pics.

Basiclaly, she's looking to be a middle-aged, disabled stay-at-home mom.

If a MAN was in this situation? He'd be considered un-date-able, yes?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jetleg

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Funny thing is, in every dating statistics i see, unemployed men are exempt from the data, like they are basically garbage.

Maybe we should treat overweight women the same?
 

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There's this woman online, cute redhead, late 30s, going through a divorce (it'll be over in a month). Apparently she needed to still stay married for a year until the health benefits stopped for the year. Legal crap.

Anyways, shes' 37, wants to marry again...wants kids (even at her age)...and says she's on disability due to back problems...although the photos, she seems highly capable. Claims to cannot sit for long periods of time, even at a desk job. (I don't buy it).

I tried to trip her up, about why she wants kids if she has a bad back? She said, "The worst of it will be the third tri-mester, which I can muddle through it" I even asked her why didn't she have kids with her first husband? Apparently,s omething to do with him NOT wanting kids.

I wasn't really buying into it, but it's amazing how someone can admit all this in a profile and expect a man to support her 100% on her disablity?

I don't even buy the fact she's disable since she's clearly having a grand ol' time, standing/posing in her profile pics.

Basiclaly, she's looking to be a middle-aged, disabled stay-at-home mom.

If a MAN was in this situation? He'd be considered un-date-able, yes?
Have someone you know, pose as an unemployed man on disability or welfare, who wants kids, hit her up for a date and see how she reacts.
 

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She's looking for a man to provide for her and that's very normal for women to do, but on the other hand, why would you even be remotely close to being that man for ****'s sake? If you're looking to provide for a woman that is supposedly going to bear, give birth and raise your child/children, why not look for a healthy one that does not pose so much because she actually has some character and some real values/skills LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, there's this one woman in 50% disability from the VA, but power lifts. She dabbles in stuff online...personal training, but she's not booked and does modeling gigs, too. But it's sparse.

She is married to a firefighter that's about to retire.

How can you be on disability if you power lift? Really? But maybe VA disability is different?
 

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She is likely on pain meds for back pain, and any woman over 35 is unlikely to bear healthy children. She is great for a ONS - then stay away.
 

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Have someone you know, pose as an unemployed man on disability or welfare, who wants kids, hit her up for a date and see how she reacts.
I've often wanted to send a friend to pose as a customer and secretly take my stripper gf to VIP and tell me what she is really like, but I know he'll fall in love with her.
 
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