"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wom@nese holds no logic whatsoever

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Came across this post recently and had to re-read it several times to make sense of it, and it still doesn't make sense to me!
Does this make sense to you?

I just met someone I find attractive for the first time.

I didn't know where I could share this but I'm very happy right now. I had a date last night and I couldn't stop smiling, and it seems to be reciprocated.
This may sound like the most mundane thing ever, but I'm used to guys only stopping by my bed and this time seems to be different. Anyway I just had to share it with someone even if I'm talking to the void
https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualConversation/comments/1dxsvj9

She said she's only used to guys stopping by her bed like they're stopping at the gas station or stopping at the grocery store.

She talks about a good date where no kissing, no kino, and no sex happened with someone she was attracted to.
She basically friend zoned him and was happy about it.
How does that make sense?

She said she's used to guys only stopping by her bed. (I'm assuming this means sex) Is she saying she has sex with unattractive guys?




Btw, is w-o-m-a-n-e-s-e an offensive word?
I tried typing it in the headline like ******** and it got censored.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She talks about a good date she had where no kissing, no kino, and no sex happened with someone she was attracted to
You're jumping to quite a few conclusions, based upon the extremely sparse info in that post
 

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I don’t let them talk, unless it’s in tongues, besides her gagging is enough for me.
 

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Came across this post recently and had to re-read it several times to make sense of it, and it still doesn't make sense to me!
Does this make sense to you?



https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualConversation/comments/1dxsvj9

She said she's only used to guys stopping by her bed like they're stopping at the gas station or stopping at the grocery store.

She talks about a good date where no kissing, no kino, and no sex happened with someone she was attracted to.
She basically friend zoned him and was happy about it.
How does that make sense?

She said she's used to guys only stopping by her bed. (I'm assuming this means sex) Is she saying she has sex with unattractive guys?




Btw, is w-o-m-a-n-e-s-e an offensive word?
I tried typing it in the headline like ******** and it got censored.
She means that she wasn't made to feel like a sex object by the man, which is what she is used to.

At least that is what I am reading into it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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