"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Came across this post recently and had to re-read it several times to make sense of it, and it still doesn't make sense to me!
Does this make sense to you?

I just met someone I find attractive for the first time.

I didn't know where I could share this but I'm very happy right now. I had a date last night and I couldn't stop smiling, and it seems to be reciprocated.
This may sound like the most mundane thing ever, but I'm used to guys only stopping by my bed and this time seems to be different. Anyway I just had to share it with someone even if I'm talking to the void
https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualConversation/comments/1dxsvj9

She said she's only used to guys stopping by her bed like they're stopping at the gas station or stopping at the grocery store.

She talks about a good date where no kissing, no kino, and no sex happened with someone she was attracted to.
She basically friend zoned him and was happy about it.
How does that make sense?

She said she's used to guys only stopping by her bed. (I'm assuming this means sex) Is she saying she has sex with unattractive guys?




Btw, is w-o-m-a-n-e-s-e an offensive word?
I tried typing it in the headline like ******** and it got censored.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She talks about a good date she had where no kissing, no kino, and no sex happened with someone she was attracted to
You're jumping to quite a few conclusions, based upon the extremely sparse info in that post
 

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I don’t let them talk, unless it’s in tongues, besides her gagging is enough for me.
 

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Came across this post recently and had to re-read it several times to make sense of it, and it still doesn't make sense to me!
Does this make sense to you?



https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualConversation/comments/1dxsvj9

She said she's only used to guys stopping by her bed like they're stopping at the gas station or stopping at the grocery store.

She talks about a good date where no kissing, no kino, and no sex happened with someone she was attracted to.
She basically friend zoned him and was happy about it.
How does that make sense?

She said she's used to guys only stopping by her bed. (I'm assuming this means sex) Is she saying she has sex with unattractive guys?




Btw, is w-o-m-a-n-e-s-e an offensive word?
I tried typing it in the headline like ******** and it got censored.
She means that she wasn't made to feel like a sex object by the man, which is what she is used to.

At least that is what I am reading into it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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