"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Witty/Bantering Comeback For When Girls Say...

BigSmooth

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So I am pretty successful when talking/flirting, but one comeback that I haven't figured out yet is for when girls call you "mean" or a "jerk".

I definitely don't take these words seriously when they say it (no one should, it's part of their "tests"), but I haven't really found any solid teasing comebacks for this.


Any other Don Juans have any of their lines they would like to contribute? I'm sure a lot of guys can benefit from this too.



-Smooth
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chamber36

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I like to say: "thank you!". I see it as a compliment, since women love jerks.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Who gives a chit? Sometimes I say thanks; sometimes I don't even acknowledge it. If a girl is calling you an ass­hole, you're doing something right




Now if she is calling you an ass­hole while cutting off your balls, then you've got a problem.
 
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