Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Within the hour...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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But if I'm goiing to a party, I usually smoke a blunt with the homies and just have fun. Drinking is too fun to pass up so drink and pass out
Oh DOn't drink and drive because you might spill yoiur drink
Can you import bud from Cuba over registered mail?
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there are way too many down sides
i find going with a group i just get very restricted..
and don't want to look like a fool in front of my friends
When i go clubbing alone I've got nothing to lose and hit on every chick i see
and really have fun and enjoy it!
PLUS ..you gotta really enjoy the music
I actually go to the clubs for the music
the girls is just a bonus
HOPE you had some success
and hey ..if it didn't work out doesn't mean you are not a DJ..
just go back and try again!
persistance is what I CALL DJ
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I was hugged up with this cutie during it and we were giggling and talking about the wet girls etc...
Her friend was nice and damn I wanna dance with her so I can get all touchy feely. I've seen her out a few times and I am sure she is feeling me.
I basically built some rapport with her friend who I want to discuss stuff with over a beverage and all in all I had a great night.
Definitely got all messed up. Yeah corona.