"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Within the hour...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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But if I'm goiing to a party, I usually smoke a blunt with the homies and just have fun. Drinking is too fun to pass up so drink and pass out
Oh DOn't drink and drive because you might spill yoiur drink
Can you import bud from Cuba over registered mail?
chicksrock
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there are way too many down sides
i find going with a group i just get very restricted..
and don't want to look like a fool in front of my friends
When i go clubbing alone I've got nothing to lose and hit on every chick i see
and really have fun and enjoy it!
PLUS ..you gotta really enjoy the music
I actually go to the clubs for the music
the girls is just a bonus
HOPE you had some success
and hey ..if it didn't work out doesn't mean you are not a DJ..
just go back and try again!
persistance is what I CALL DJ
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I was hugged up with this cutie during it and we were giggling and talking about the wet girls etc...
Her friend was nice and damn I wanna dance with her so I can get all touchy feely. I've seen her out a few times and I am sure she is feeling me.
I basically built some rapport with her friend who I want to discuss stuff with over a beverage and all in all I had a great night.
Definitely got all messed up. Yeah corona.