"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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With prom coming up, here's an important dancing thread bump

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50818

This is a very powerful post. If you are interested in dancing in any way (which you should be if you're going to go to prom) read this and lets discuss dancing tips, technique whatever.

One thing KC says in his post is that when you move a girl's hands above your head, they should fall and she'll instinctively hold your head. This never worked for me :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good thread, I haven't been clubbing in a while, I need to go otherwise I will be rusty.
 

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Take dancing in school. Not only your confidence, dancing skills increase, you also meet lots of hot chicks. Anyways, dancing never been a big problem for me, I got the moves :D!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why are you trying to learn to dance from youtube?

dude I remember I was like that last year freaking out about dancing, but seirously if you just GRAB YOUR BALLS during prom, no girl will reject you..

..actually some girls like 3 rejected me but I moved on and danced w/like 8 different girls. no date for me haha but it was fun and I overcame my fear of being a rigid sh1tty dancer. no will is looking at you...trust me...and many girls who had secret crushes on you will come out and just dance w/you if you ask them. this is no joke..i was surprised.

dont worry about this sh1t, and never try to learn dancing from youtube. you get good by doing something, not watching other people do it on the internet
 

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I will add a disclaimer that is necessary for some people on here:

By grab your balls, I meant "grab your balls" figuratively, like have confidence. Do not literally grab your balls on the dance floor.
 

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Potbelly said:
I will add a disclaimer that is necessary for some people on here:

By grab your balls, I meant "grab your balls" figuratively, like have confidence. Do not literally grab your balls on the dance floor.
But it looks so groovy.
 

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Docs said:
But it looks so groovy.
LOL and potbelly its not to teach you how to dance but to show you the hip movement and rhythm so at least u get an idea.
 

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Potbelly said:
why are you trying to learn to dance from youtube?

dude I remember I was like that last year freaking out about dancing, but seirously if you just GRAB YOUR BALLS during prom, no girl will reject you..

..actually some girls like 3 rejected me but I moved on and danced w/like 8 different girls. no date for me haha but it was fun and I overcame my fear of being a rigid sh1tty dancer. no will is looking at you...trust me...and many girls who had secret crushes on you will come out and just dance w/you if you ask them. this is no joke..i was surprised.

dont worry about this sh1t, and never try to learn dancing from youtube. you get good by doing something, not watching other people do it on the internet
this is true too, but just remember, if you can awestrike a girl on the dancefloor, she will come back, and she WILL talk about you to other girls in a good light
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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