"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

With prom coming up, here's an important dancing thread bump

Kev07

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2006
Messages
1,706
Reaction score
9
Location
Bay Area, California, Currently in SoCal (UCR)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50818

This is a very powerful post. If you are interested in dancing in any way (which you should be if you're going to go to prom) read this and lets discuss dancing tips, technique whatever.

One thing KC says in his post is that when you move a girl's hands above your head, they should fall and she'll instinctively hold your head. This never worked for me :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Touchout

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
Good thread, I haven't been clubbing in a while, I need to go otherwise I will be rusty.
 

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
Take dancing in school. Not only your confidence, dancing skills increase, you also meet lots of hot chicks. Anyways, dancing never been a big problem for me, I got the moves :D!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Potbelly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2006
Messages
820
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
why are you trying to learn to dance from youtube?

dude I remember I was like that last year freaking out about dancing, but seirously if you just GRAB YOUR BALLS during prom, no girl will reject you..

..actually some girls like 3 rejected me but I moved on and danced w/like 8 different girls. no date for me haha but it was fun and I overcame my fear of being a rigid sh1tty dancer. no will is looking at you...trust me...and many girls who had secret crushes on you will come out and just dance w/you if you ask them. this is no joke..i was surprised.

dont worry about this sh1t, and never try to learn dancing from youtube. you get good by doing something, not watching other people do it on the internet
 

Potbelly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2006
Messages
820
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
I will add a disclaimer that is necessary for some people on here:

By grab your balls, I meant "grab your balls" figuratively, like have confidence. Do not literally grab your balls on the dance floor.
 

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
Potbelly said:
I will add a disclaimer that is necessary for some people on here:

By grab your balls, I meant "grab your balls" figuratively, like have confidence. Do not literally grab your balls on the dance floor.
But it looks so groovy.
 

wabu07

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2007
Messages
35
Reaction score
0
Docs said:
But it looks so groovy.
LOL and potbelly its not to teach you how to dance but to show you the hip movement and rhythm so at least u get an idea.
 

Kev07

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2006
Messages
1,706
Reaction score
9
Location
Bay Area, California, Currently in SoCal (UCR)
Potbelly said:
why are you trying to learn to dance from youtube?

dude I remember I was like that last year freaking out about dancing, but seirously if you just GRAB YOUR BALLS during prom, no girl will reject you..

..actually some girls like 3 rejected me but I moved on and danced w/like 8 different girls. no date for me haha but it was fun and I overcame my fear of being a rigid sh1tty dancer. no will is looking at you...trust me...and many girls who had secret crushes on you will come out and just dance w/you if you ask them. this is no joke..i was surprised.

dont worry about this sh1t, and never try to learn dancing from youtube. you get good by doing something, not watching other people do it on the internet
this is true too, but just remember, if you can awestrike a girl on the dancefloor, she will come back, and she WILL talk about you to other girls in a good light
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top