Well, in my town I can tell taht I cross paths everyday with a few 9 and 10 everyday. Talking to them is another thing, of course, and the girls I know, most of them are really just average in my book. I know some guys who are(claim to be) quite successfull, but when I look to most of the girls they walk around with, many of them I wouldn't even get near. I don't score that much, but I try to keep my standards decent. But I would like to know from ther people here who seem to really GET IT, most of the girls you score with fall into what in general ? 7 ? 8 ?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
With exactly what are the top ones scoring with ?
- Thread starter SXS
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Whether or not a girl is good looking enough to hook up with is something only you can decide. I say keep it respectable, obviously you want to hook up everyone does but hooking up with ugly girls just to hook up isn't going to establish any social proof or respectability for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Do you mean looks only? Those hb9s might be total b!tches, and the HB7s you see could be nymphomaniacs who never say no to anything. I have one of each right now, and I can't decide between the two of them.
you say you know girls that are "just average"
what have you done that is so great??
are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?
tanstaafl (google it)
the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
what have you done that is so great??
are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?
tanstaafl (google it)
the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
First of all she has to have a good personality. I don't care about 8's or 9's who suck as persons... except maybe when i'm drunk in a club or at a party or something. The drunker i get, the lower my bar goes. I've never slept with really ugly girls though thank god.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.