Well, in my town I can tell taht I cross paths everyday with a few 9 and 10 everyday. Talking to them is another thing, of course, and the girls I know, most of them are really just average in my book. I know some guys who are(claim to be) quite successfull, but when I look to most of the girls they walk around with, many of them I wouldn't even get near. I don't score that much, but I try to keep my standards decent. But I would like to know from ther people here who seem to really GET IT, most of the girls you score with fall into what in general ? 7 ? 8 ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
With exactly what are the top ones scoring with ?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Whether or not a girl is good looking enough to hook up with is something only you can decide. I say keep it respectable, obviously you want to hook up everyone does but hooking up with ugly girls just to hook up isn't going to establish any social proof or respectability for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Do you mean looks only? Those hb9s might be total b!tches, and the HB7s you see could be nymphomaniacs who never say no to anything. I have one of each right now, and I can't decide between the two of them.
you say you know girls that are "just average"
what have you done that is so great??
are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?
tanstaafl (google it)
the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
what have you done that is so great??
are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?
tanstaafl (google it)
the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
First of all she has to have a good personality. I don't care about 8's or 9's who suck as persons... except maybe when i'm drunk in a club or at a party or something. The drunker i get, the lower my bar goes. I've never slept with really ugly girls though thank god.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.