Well, in my town I can tell taht I cross paths everyday with a few 9 and 10 everyday. Talking to them is another thing, of course, and the girls I know, most of them are really just average in my book. I know some guys who are(claim to be) quite successfull, but when I look to most of the girls they walk around with, many of them I wouldn't even get near. I don't score that much, but I try to keep my standards decent. But I would like to know from ther people here who seem to really GET IT, most of the girls you score with fall into what in general ? 7 ? 8 ?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
With exactly what are the top ones scoring with ?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Whether or not a girl is good looking enough to hook up with is something only you can decide. I say keep it respectable, obviously you want to hook up everyone does but hooking up with ugly girls just to hook up isn't going to establish any social proof or respectability for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Do you mean looks only? Those hb9s might be total b!tches, and the HB7s you see could be nymphomaniacs who never say no to anything. I have one of each right now, and I can't decide between the two of them.
you say you know girls that are "just average"
what have you done that is so great??
are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?
tanstaafl (google it)
the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
what have you done that is so great??
are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?
tanstaafl (google it)
the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
First of all she has to have a good personality. I don't care about 8's or 9's who suck as persons... except maybe when i'm drunk in a club or at a party or something. The drunker i get, the lower my bar goes. I've never slept with really ugly girls though thank god.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.