Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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With exactly what are the top ones scoring with ?

SXS

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Well, in my town I can tell taht I cross paths everyday with a few 9 and 10 everyday. Talking to them is another thing, of course, and the girls I know, most of them are really just average in my book. I know some guys who are(claim to be) quite successfull, but when I look to most of the girls they walk around with, many of them I wouldn't even get near. I don't score that much, but I try to keep my standards decent. But I would like to know from ther people here who seem to really GET IT, most of the girls you score with fall into what in general ? 7 ? 8 ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sam Adams

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Whether or not a girl is good looking enough to hook up with is something only you can decide. I say keep it respectable, obviously you want to hook up everyone does but hooking up with ugly girls just to hook up isn't going to establish any social proof or respectability for you.
 

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Do you mean looks only? Those hb9s might be total b!tches, and the HB7s you see could be nymphomaniacs who never say no to anything. I have one of each right now, and I can't decide between the two of them.
 

saber

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you say you know girls that are "just average"


what have you done that is so great??

are you super rich? super social? or super sexy?

tanstaafl (google it)

the fact is most people are average including me and you and unless you become otherwise you will not date hote chicks except by a fluke
 

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First of all she has to have a good personality. I don't care about 8's or 9's who suck as persons... except maybe when i'm drunk in a club or at a party or something. The drunker i get, the lower my bar goes. I've never slept with really ugly girls though thank god.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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