Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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WINTER dates

kev me723

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yeah, so summer is great, there's like infinite date/hangout things you can do. But I live in the midwest. It's like 30 degrees outside rite now. I go out to dinner often enough on weekends with my gf/go to the mall/hang out at our houses (always a good time) but that's about it. I snowboard but she doesn't and I really don't want to teach her jus bcuz everybody has a sh*tty first few times.

What else is there to do in the winter??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Patrick124

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ice skating.
try bowling?
find local Hooka Bars, they're fun.
if its snowing out, go sledding.
 

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Originally posted by kev me723
yeah, so summer is great, there's like infinite date/hangout things you can do. But I live in the midwest. It's like 30 degrees outside rite now. I go out to dinner often enough on weekends with my gf/go to the mall/hang out at our houses (always a good time) but that's about it. I snowboard but she doesn't and I really don't want to teach her jus bcuz everybody has a sh*tty first few times.

What else is there to do in the winter??
Don't be lazy. Teach her; both of you will enjoy it, and she will appreciate it. It will only help your relationship, as she sees how you care for her -- but without overdoing it like an overprotective mother.

Thirty degrees is not that cold, even with your wind chill. I've been there many times. If you are old enough, or have a fake I.D., go to a few clubs in Chicago or go play pool, bowling, basketball, indoor tennis, swimming pool, etc.

Invite her over for something "boring" but when she comes over surprise her with a self-cooked dinner. She would love that more than a restaurant because you prepared it.

There is more to winter than snowsports, going to the mall and doing the same sh1t over in one's house. I just listed a few; you're welcome.
 

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Sledding is always fun. There is still most likely local bands playing shows at local venues find a band that plays a genre of music that you both can agree on and go. You can go ice skating just do whatever you want don't let the weather restrict you to much. Be impulsive and do whatever comes to mind. Also being impulsive and doing something out of the ordinary and spontaneous is always a plus.
 
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