"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WINTER dates

kev me723

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yeah, so summer is great, there's like infinite date/hangout things you can do. But I live in the midwest. It's like 30 degrees outside rite now. I go out to dinner often enough on weekends with my gf/go to the mall/hang out at our houses (always a good time) but that's about it. I snowboard but she doesn't and I really don't want to teach her jus bcuz everybody has a sh*tty first few times.

What else is there to do in the winter??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Patrick124

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ice skating.
try bowling?
find local Hooka Bars, they're fun.
if its snowing out, go sledding.
 

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Originally posted by kev me723
yeah, so summer is great, there's like infinite date/hangout things you can do. But I live in the midwest. It's like 30 degrees outside rite now. I go out to dinner often enough on weekends with my gf/go to the mall/hang out at our houses (always a good time) but that's about it. I snowboard but she doesn't and I really don't want to teach her jus bcuz everybody has a sh*tty first few times.

What else is there to do in the winter??
Don't be lazy. Teach her; both of you will enjoy it, and she will appreciate it. It will only help your relationship, as she sees how you care for her -- but without overdoing it like an overprotective mother.

Thirty degrees is not that cold, even with your wind chill. I've been there many times. If you are old enough, or have a fake I.D., go to a few clubs in Chicago or go play pool, bowling, basketball, indoor tennis, swimming pool, etc.

Invite her over for something "boring" but when she comes over surprise her with a self-cooked dinner. She would love that more than a restaurant because you prepared it.

There is more to winter than snowsports, going to the mall and doing the same sh1t over in one's house. I just listed a few; you're welcome.
 

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Sledding is always fun. There is still most likely local bands playing shows at local venues find a band that plays a genre of music that you both can agree on and go. You can go ice skating just do whatever you want don't let the weather restrict you to much. Be impulsive and do whatever comes to mind. Also being impulsive and doing something out of the ordinary and spontaneous is always a plus.
 
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