"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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yeah, so summer is great, there's like infinite date/hangout things you can do. But I live in the midwest. It's like 30 degrees outside rite now. I go out to dinner often enough on weekends with my gf/go to the mall/hang out at our houses (always a good time) but that's about it. I snowboard but she doesn't and I really don't want to teach her jus bcuz everybody has a sh*tty first few times.

What else is there to do in the winter??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ice skating.
try bowling?
find local Hooka Bars, they're fun.
if its snowing out, go sledding.
 
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Originally posted by kev me723
yeah, so summer is great, there's like infinite date/hangout things you can do. But I live in the midwest. It's like 30 degrees outside rite now. I go out to dinner often enough on weekends with my gf/go to the mall/hang out at our houses (always a good time) but that's about it. I snowboard but she doesn't and I really don't want to teach her jus bcuz everybody has a sh*tty first few times.

What else is there to do in the winter??
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Don't be lazy. Teach her; both of you will enjoy it, and she will appreciate it. It will only help your relationship, as she sees how you care for her -- but without overdoing it like an overprotective mother.

Thirty degrees is not that cold, even with your wind chill. I've been there many times. If you are old enough, or have a fake I.D., go to a few clubs in Chicago or go play pool, bowling, basketball, indoor tennis, swimming pool, etc.

Invite her over for something "boring" but when she comes over surprise her with a self-cooked dinner. She would love that more than a restaurant because you prepared it.

There is more to winter than snowsports, going to the mall and doing the same sh1t over in one's house. I just listed a few; you're welcome.
 
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Sledding is always fun. There is still most likely local bands playing shows at local venues find a band that plays a genre of music that you both can agree on and go. You can go ice skating just do whatever you want don't let the weather restrict you to much. Be impulsive and do whatever comes to mind. Also being impulsive and doing something out of the ordinary and spontaneous is always a plus.
 
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