"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Winning and Losing II

Nine Breaker

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The majority of the male species that exist upon the planet Earth today are a fallen race. The limitless potential that exists within each and every man of this age is hidden under the engulfing darkness of a warped, and often demeaning perspective.

The value of a man, the extent of his success, the very unit of measurement of his worth is now something external to the man himself. It is something that is completely apart from a man's achievements, his goals, his personality and his very being entirely...

... it is woman.

Every time some unwitting chump asked you "how many women have you slept with?" or perhaps "are you a virgin?" or something like "She is out of your league"", you were witness to the evidence to what I am saying here. Is it any wonder that you will automatically receive more respect from a guy if you convince him that you are far from being a virgin, have slept with dozens of highly attractive women, and can get any woman you desire to sleep with?

This happns all the time, for the simple reason that an Average Chump believes that the purpose of man is to find woman, and 99% of the Earth's male population can be categorised as Average Chumps.

But, wait, where does this path leave the average chump? What can he EVER accomplish with his life if all he does is score with highly desirable women? Having sexual intercourse is certainly no great achievement - any multi-cellular organism that reproduces sexually has been able to do the exact same thing. How does it feel to know that this "accomplishment" is so great that even insects can lead as important a life?

This finally brings me back full-circle, to the title of this thread. In the original thread entitled "Winning and Losing" (ref: DJBIBLE) I stated that, when it comes to women, the outcome is neither categorised as winning or losing, but simply as an experience. This thread, however, looks at life in the broader sense. Life itself can also be looked at as a series of experiences that change and define who we are - but a life experiencing nothing but the need for someone else to bring your life happiness and meaning, is a life lived without merit.

Surely, you don't need someone else to define who YOU are, do you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Agreed. I believe god has given every man the tools needed to survive and live a glorious life. Why do we need to chase another person for our own happiness? As some of the more experienced have stated, "women are just the icing on the cake of life."
 

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Very eye-opening post! :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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